for us to do......

"Be kindly affectionate to one another 

with brotherly love,

in honor giving preference to one another;

not lagging in diligence,

fervent in spirit,

serving the Lord;

rejoicing in hope,

patient in tribulation,

continuing steadfast in prayer;

distributing to the needs of the saints,

given to hospitality.

Bless those who persecute you;

bless and do not curse.

Rejoice with those who rejoice,

and weep with those who weep.

Be of the same mind toward one another.

Do not set you mind on high things,

but associate with the humble.

Do not be wise in your own opinion.

Repay no one evil for evil.

Have regard for good things in the sight of all men.

If it is possible, 

as much as depends on you,

live peaceably with all men.

Do not be overcome by evil,

but overcome evil with good."

Romans ~ 12th chapter